So poetic and beautiful - a lot to digest and a lot of truth.

Hi Derek:

Wish you were here contributing constructively to saving the nation from political/military overthrow which too many people are in denial about what's going on, in addition to the government denial of climate change and the consequences already underway. Look at Elizabeth Warren's web page of plans.

Suzanne

It’s enough just to be.

Sounds familiar, I dig it. Also trying to learn what Chris in #3 said.

Beautiful, Sad, Tragic, True, and Concise.

Thank you!

Imagine people who have lived even 50 years more! My Gma “ The Pearl” will be 87 next year. She drives, plays poker, rides her bike and takes no bs from anyone. She is an inspiration as are you!

Lovely piece of writing Derek. I don't think it needs any improving.

It resonates strongly with a lot of my own work.
Here I am,in my fifties (just)..writing the lyric

"So much now to unlearn
for blues skies to return...."

Cheers david :)

very nice thoughts. thank you

humility is always a good starting point i would think

The fifth cross is the crossover into another a world. Reminds me of this which I just read. https://boonepickens.com/?p=2343

I love the poetic nature of your post but don't we need to stop crossing the world, for the sake of the planet?
It’s a metaphor for “experience the world four ways”. It’s not about travel. — Derek

perfect perception and articulation. thanks Derek ☺

The good kind of heavy. I always like getting an email that you've written something new.
Hope you're well, Derek!

Thank you, for sharing
life, in a few sentences.

damn derek. this is my favorite thing you've written. poetic. big love from korea.

What a great and emotional read...and I only got back from China yesterday - celebrated the last year of my 30’s there...and I’m back home now and it just feels so strange like I don’t know where I belong now. Every time I read something of yours though, I feel a little bit better so thank you.

Lovely piece, Derek! I'd love to republish. Will contact you privately.

Very wise words. In this age of isolationism and social media echo chambers this message needs to be shouted from the rooftops. Thankyou Derek for sharing with us all.

beautiful :)

It's funny how this showed up in my inbox at the absolutely perfectly right time.
I needed this. Thank you, for inspiring with your words. I don't know you, but I love you man.

This is the most moving piece I've read from you. It is almost literally describing my life (lived in Europe, then Canada, now Europe, moving back to Canada precisely at 50 years old). But of course this is a metaphor, it's so very universal. Thank you for putting this into words I couldn't. I am so grateful that I can share this with my close friends/family now.

Damn this is beautiful

Thanks for sharing this beautiful piece, Derek. Always a pleasure receiving your emails. Bits of wisdom and inspiration in every one. Cheers, Khoi.

Beautiful.

there is a song here!

Thanks for writing this.
Please make a song! — Derek

Very beautiful, and true and I'd not change a single word you write, it's your heart space light. Gathering the whole in this moment. Beautiful, thank you for sharing, caring loving unlearning.. Namastey

Great piece, love your perspective!

Mirror that for me, definitely hit the spot...!

I just turned 30 and I quit my senior level finance job and moved to UK by myself. I know it’s never too late to move for good and explore the true self. Cross the world to learn, to reflect, to write and to creat a better version of myself.

I lived in Singapore for many years (too many years, I think). Yet when I was about to leave, I found friendships with a potential to blossom, places still left to be explored, relationships that can still take depth. Where have I been all this while?

Now when I visit Singapore for just a week at a time, I find the friends who still years to meet me, reconnect. When I am there, I go to my once typical haunts, I don't do atypical things. I join my friends in their regular activities so that my occasional visit intrudes as least as possible their daily regular life.

"Evolution, revolutions, creation, disasters, so much love, and so many lives. You just won’t be part of it anymore."- Yes, that is true. Somehow, been there, done that. I just want to move on.

In spite of being in my 50s, I feel like crossing the word the fourth time

Beautifully written.

Hi Derek,

Getting ready for my last crossing. As always, your posts here are very insightful and perfectly accurate.

I notice some see this as an opportunity to voice their brand of politics. They are to be celebrated as they journey on their second crossing.

Thanks again for sharing-- I always enjoy seeing your messages in my email.

Turning 40 in a week - timely it seems, in every sense! Love this, feels true. Hope to be able to experience/do the third and fourth.

And if you are good you can cross it quicker each time...

And then you have time to explore and share with those you love with what us out there... The good ideas that others have that we could use.

In a multi cultural world we can cross the road with a similar effect.

The world's coming to us.

Embrace it or run!

about to start my 3rd journey. loved this, thanks Derek.

Beautiful!! Thank you for the check in Derek!! I'm at that stage where I'm eager to lead and so ready to share what I've learnt so far. I'll make sure that I remember to walk onwards with humility, openness and gratitude.

❤️❤️❤️❤️

*Shivers.*

Very nice!

Beautiful man!

And cross the world forever in legacy

Wow.

I'm speechless.

This is incredible.

Goosebumps x4. Love this so much. Beautifully said. Thanks for writing and sharing it.

Wondering if there's a tune to go with the words...?
Feel free to make one! Alter the words as much as you'd like to make a good song. — Derek

Derek, wow. I'm in my 30s and this hits the spot... I feel like I'm coming into these answers and need to tell everyone. Thanks for your wisdom. Look forward to finding the questions as I go...

"Now you know what happens when you die: everything!"

❤️

Funnily enought, I just finished my second big world trip and I am in my mid thirties.

I have learnt that sometimes we look for what we need far far away, when it is just round the corner.

I have also noticed that I tend to want more of everything all the time, I am constantly hungry. Whilst this is ok, it is better to realise that it doesn't make any sense around human relationships. I have learnt to be content with my friends and family, co-workers, managers, acquaintances, neighbours. They might not be perfect, but they are what I have.

If it truly is their world and not mine anymore, I may as well take that warm bath with gin and a knife now...

I’m in my late 50s and what you say really resonates. I may not know what I want but I know what I don’t want and I’m having to leave my old world to the young to sculpt it as they wish.
However, I and many others of my age (and older) are creating a new world for ourselves and we cross the world to be happy and contented, love each other and embrace a life without regrets.
Although our final crossing means that we leave this earth, as you say life still continues for everyone else, the tide still rises and falls, the seasons still move from one to the next. But we will be ready to go because the time will be right.
Lovely piece Derek - Beautiful x

I really enjoyed reading this! Especially the first paragraph, I felt that one.

It's funny... as I was reading I was looking forward to seeing what you wrote about crossing the world the 3rd time in your 40's.... that's where I'm at now.... but it skipped to 50's. I feel like I'm inbetween.... making up for my 30's, drawing a line under stuff i can't fix, or tying up loose ends. Looking at the world differently as I travel... appreciating more, understanding more, expecting less. Less perfection, more beauty.

Amazing, Derek. Thank you for sharing that with me. It gave me thoughts and feels and I am so excited for life and everything it brings. Thanks for reminding me ☺

See you across the world xx

Hi Derek, have been a reader of your posts since quite a long time now. This is one of the most beautiful article that you have written. The entire post being poetic makes it much more soothing to read.
While I read this post, my life (so far) sort of flashed back in my mind and as I progressed, I couldn't help but wonder about how my 50s (and so on) would look like.
Your post while being short, takes the reader to an entire journey, a beautiful journey.
Thanks a lot for sharing this. Keep sharing your beautiful thoughts with us.

Nice and how true....

Beautiful and touching. When reading this you feeling like your life goes fast forward from young to old. Thank you.

Well said! - The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered:

"Man! Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”

“Kiss and fall and promise to them all”. It’s interesting how this line along with therest of the paragraph gave me nostalgia more than anything :). Beautiful post thought.

Stay Well,
PJ

👏👏 blog post length.
As someone aged 35 I do know it all!! 😬 With many friends ranging from 18-88 I get it and observing those older I wonder if they somehow went the wrong way round or stopped for a period...or just maybe there journey is different. I look forward to my next times round (50’s isn’t far) and remembering how those I knew handled it.
Thanks Derek - Ryan (Oxfordshire, England)

That was lovely! You brightened up my morning. Thank you.

Awesome. In my late forties and I suspect I will look back in my seventies and see a young person who worried too much. But right now I think I am figuring it all out! Late bloomer. Inspiring and aspirational.

Very well written, my favorite line that I will steal with pride was “Have no answers — only good questions and good ears.”

I crossed the world, far from my home country, to learn and in the meantime to unlearn. Your articles are alway beautiful and warm our hearts. Thanks

I was excited to ready this as I'm pre-retired and a perpetual traveler since 2012 and 'crossing the world' has always been my priority and my family's. Maybe this comes from having grown up without roots except in myself and my nearest and dearest. I'm disappointed with your text though, I was perhaps expecting/hoping to read kindred thoughts by a kindred spirit. I'm 64 so probably fall between the 50s and the elderly world-crosser but feel closer to the elder because our first 5 years of perpetual travel were intensely humbling and a wonderful if hard learning process, check the 50s! But what I absolutely can not agree with is that sweeping assertion appreciate the young, *its their world, not yours*. Yes I very much appreciate the young. I love watching new initiatives, ideas, inspirations take form and blossom. Does it follow that mine have dried up? Does that mean my experience, support, input, enthusiasm are dust in the wind because my body is older than theirs? Does aging automatically imply a mindset that expects only to abdicate all claims to love and lust for life, growth, depth, meaning, or any curiosity. And what about spiritual growth? It makes the world ours in deeper ways than imaginable in our younger years, and makes us unshakably relevant in the ever evolving tapestry of beings that is the world. I'm not negating the goodbyes, they seem more and more to me though, like a further door opening.

This was the first thing I read today and it spoke directly to me. I am in my early 50s and in the midst of a third career change/reinvention of myself, after earning a higher degree at 51. I am humbled beyond words daily, but just keep moving forward. Always asking questions and seeking a new perspective. I guess you can say it truly is my third crossing. Thank you for your words and thoughts. They straightened the path for me on this day.

Oh wow yes. I love this. The last part hit me hard because we must get out and LIVE while we are alive

Touched my heart in more ways than you can imagine. Thank you again Derek for just being you.

Your forever fan,
KC

Hi Derek, Between 3 and 4 crossings are a number of reasons to do it again! Your thoughts are poetic. Thanks for sharing. Gwendolyn

Wow- I would think you must have been spying on my life the way this exactly parallels my own life timeline....buuut I guess one of the humbling truths we learn as we get to 50 is that we’re really not as unique as we’d (I’d!) like to believe... ;) I feel this is both lovely, hopeful synopsis and useful cautionary tale. Thanks so much for creating and sharing it.

It’s taken me 66 years to learn to stop and breathe. To be still at times. ...........................thanks.

I'm indeed crossing the world the first time. Fell in love and learning to unlearn.
Thank you Derek for such an amazing stance 👍

Beautiful, powerful, and raw; I don’t think a single word needs revised. Thank you for sharing this!

This... kind of brought me to tears...

I dug the part about being humbled by your past and what you thought you knew. I've told students that sometimes when I'm playing good and my chops are up I think to myself...yeah! that's the shit. I'm really playing. And then I hear Wes Montgomery or Pat Martino and I think to myself..."you can't play your way off the back porch". That's the perspective I tried to instill in my students. Gotta have it. RW

Hi Derek, it was beautiful. I love the different stages of life in your poem. I do not mean to be a critic but it’s just a suggestion, the first couple years with our folks is also a stage of our life. Maybe the first stage where we get accustomed to the world and know what true love and affection really is. Just a point of view Derek. Other than that, the depth was really immense. Loved it. :)

Great to see a piece of mail in the inbox from someone I've not met in person just putting creative items and personal thoughts out there to share. Keep doing so as it's much appreciated.

Absolutely beautiful and so true.
Hugs

I'm going to have to read this many times to uncover and rediscover the times I crossed the world. Thank you Derek.

I like this a lot. Very reflective. And too true.

wonderful - although you missed out the bit about coming to Glasgow ☺

m x

good.
if only! a timely reminder not to be sedentary.

Truly epic in such a short post. You have a gift, Derek. Thanks for sharing this.

Thank you for highlighting the idea of "perspective." Sometimes (in my 30s) I think I know more than I really do. Then I tutor my international students online, and I realize what a bubble I've been in. I've tutored people from all walks of life, from wealthy young people to struggling refugees. The magic of the internet can sometimes unfold as the real "world-wide web."

I really enjoyed this! Just starting my third trip at 45. It's true! There's so much to unlearn.

Take care!
Juli

This reminds me, l lost a brother. Now I been North, South, East,and West. Now I am idling in my 60's trying to live my best. Nice Derek

This made me realize I’m a blowhard. And I too realized I never crossed the world the first time.

I couldn't agree with you more. Few (good/bad/stupid) questions:

1.What is the most important thing in life?

2.How many people took birth and died in this planet since time immemorial?

3.How many languages are there in the world?

5.How many must-read books,must-listen musics, must-see painting are there?

4.How many religions?

5.Why borders?

6.What is Oneness actually?

This sounds intelligent and deep... but it's pretty shallow and nonsensical. And written by someone who clearly didn't take his own advice and thinks he now really gets it. At any age one can and should be humble towards others and the World, open and curious and giving. These imagined demarcations are something a "wise" person creates not realizing they only further separate.

We have spoken recently. I live in Tokyo and you replied to my email and to my gf's email. Amazing!

During my early 20's I couldn't stop thinking about one day traveling the world. At that time the only blog/page where you could read about it was bootnall.com (still online). Most of my free time was spent reading stories of other travelers and dreaming about one day leaving it all behind, I even printed the posts and comments to read at home or on the beach in Brighton.

A few years after that I decided to leave my comfortable work, my nice house and even my girlfriend at that time (I am sorry Nora) and buy a one way ticket to Bangkok. That trip lasted 11 months.

12 years later and I haven't stopped traveling. I have only settled for 10 months maximum (in Tokyo) and have found a soul partner that loves this way of living. We have visited more than 50 countries and try to stay a couple of months or two on each. We live the places.


I don't think we will even settled. We might start a family and slow down a bit but never settled. On the way we have made tons of friends, learned to make apps, started companies and get different bacterias :)

Good trips.

Beautiful. This could be the theme of a mighty fine song.

Excellent.

Derek,

As a get ready to cross the world for the 3rd time, this writing is spot on.

Man, my 30's were fun, but looking back ... I didn't know anything.

Deep stuff here Derek, and I like it. I'm 62 years young and I've been struggling (a bit) since I turned 60, with what this third chapter (my lingo) of life is all about. I believe I'm crossing the world for my fourth time. Thanks. Helps me with some perspective.

Woke this morning (my birthday!) to your email, what a gift!
Thank you!

Kelley🌻

Beautiful way to say Life is Life....Very good mental vision of Life...Excellent read.

It made my eyes water, reading it.

Yes and yes and yes and yes.

Beautiful way to say Life is Life... Good mental vision of seeing Life..Excellent read.

I usually think, right on, Derek! But here I am disagreeing with the youth culture aspect and the idea that the 'world is theirs, not yours'. I believe that the world is for everyone at any age.

We all came from love, so it should be the number one way to live. It's how we lived and where we are going that matters most after all stages of life. Nothing less than returning back to love could satisfy a soul.

Good post. Always, always, read your emails.

PS - your book review are excellent. So far, I've bought five books based pretty much on your recommendations. Thanks

Love it! Thnx

Beautiful

You’re a poet now

Thank you Derek;

I am very gratefull for the wisdown and lesson in humility you provide us; and like to imagine The phases you been through to learn this.

Keep on The great work; wish you The best.

👏😘

Al Hamdu Lillah

It's a well-intenttioned post, but I must say (and I'm a big fan of yours and your writing) that it strikes me as advice by a rich guy for rich people. There are people who can't cross the city they live in without counting their change. And even those of us who can and do travel sometimes...it's only sometimes. I did not cross the world in my 20s. I was too busy looking to work. And in my 30s working and raising small children. So even tthough I don't need to count change to take the subway even I feel like you're not talking to me here. Or perhaps you meant crossing the world as a metaphor for...living? If so I think it's a poor one and invites the interpretation I put on itt.

Truer words were never spoken. I followed this path, albeit unknowingly, yet in my 50's I have left the for profit world and decided to spend my last career teaching high school kids business topics (Entrepreneurship, International Business, Personal Finance) thinking that I could somehow short circuit the 4 trips that Derek describes. I guess in my way of thinking at the beginning of my education endeavor, if I could help high school students get a leg up on the future then maybe they could forgoe the mistakes I had made... Many tenured, experienced teachers wished me luck but they knew better what I had to discover which was that all that really matters to high school kids is the kindness of the teacher and that they care, and if you can do that, then you stand a chance of making a difference in that students life because they will cross the world 4 times spreading more of that kindness to others. I continue to teach and learn at this stage of my life, and Derek's journey and reflections continue to inspire me on that path.

No better way than spending your precious days of mortality
- live
- learn
- love
- teach
- leave (possibly leave a legacy)

Derek - I've appreciated your contributions over the years, your super brief personal books notes are a personal favorite. This particular post struck me. Maybe because you nailed it, at least for me. I'm in my 50's and really identify with your perspective. I think if anything, wisdom is taking the lessons from others, so I'm going to give more, judge less and speak with a desire to be kind. Thanks again

So glad you wrote this, I was thinking along those lines yesterday but you put it into the best words and to the point. You have a gift with words, I am in the fourth trip and wondering what comes next. I have read all the comments so far today and appreciate the variety of viewpoints of appreciation for your work.............life is good.

life does not follow a book or steps

ck out geniua classical composer franz schuberts life

below his masterpiece ..read how he died atvage 3! penniless homeless

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=85D8CNVA5yg

an ck out my interview with 90 yr old johnny holiday

https://www.ontheroadwithjudy.com/entertainerinterviewsjones.htm

watch a bird in flight..a rose as it blossoms..a baby coo..old people pray.. a duck swimming..a ballet..an opera..

i fall on my knees humbled knowing i know nothing..life does not go by a book. it is an utter mystery

This hit home with me on many levels having done exactly what you are talking about, save the last trip, which will probably end up being my 6th.

I would add another at the very beginning, “Cross the world as a wide-eyed child, brazen and open to everything in front of you. Explore and play, ask strangers a million questions in foreign tongues only half-understood. Taste everything possible and laugh loudly, giggling at whatever you discover”.

The timing of reading this, at my breakfast table in the early, humid hours of a North Carolina morning; coffee at left hand, journal at right, seems almost too perfect. I’ve been contemplating the shifts and shadows of my journey a lot lately. This brought me to consider a broader view, for which I am grateful. In this 55th year of life, I’ve once again decided to “shift gears”, though not as radically as some of my gear-grinding in the past. This time it’s a realignment in my business back towards teaching a younger generation who, as you remind me here, are often,(and here I’ll paraphrase), “full of answers, having done so much, made all the mistakes and see a clear path forward”.

It’s also a realignment that requires, happily, some further “crossing of the world”, from south to north, eastern to western, trading humidly, foggy mountains for taller, rougher, newer ones holding the promise of snow and cold, crisp air. I’m excited again, childlike and intentionally nourishing that part of me willing to be the explorer, the questioner who giggles at whatever I find, whatever I taste.

I’m inspired as well to add, “Cross the world in a state of wonder and curiosity. Spend some of your currency allowing wonderment to take hold of you, to shake you to the roots of your being, to break you open and re-create you as even more your self. Be more true than you ever thought possible. Find your edges and fly past them, unhesitatingly bold in your explorations.”

You’ve inspired me to further my own reach and thinking, to see where my own current edges might lie at the “middle-of-life’s-road point. What cliffs might be ahead? What new sea to explore? How might I re-invent myself, again, and again and again?

Cheers, Amy

Loved it!

Came across a quote a few days ago that really moved me.


We all have two lives.
The second one starts when we realize we only have one.
Confucius

Intentionally,

Raj

sorry my typos in my previous comment..using smartphones require me to edit 3 times before sending..i did not!!

Beautiful!

I did it in my teens/20s. First with the Navy, then lived in Sweden on my own and traveled to many places nearby.

Now I’m in my early 30s and back in the states. Will continue doing it, for me, but also my son. He’s 8.

Cheers, man.

Lio.

It’s the truth, and I never saw it that way until you wrote it. Beautiful.

ps the link in my previous email to 90 year old johnny holiday becoming a movie star should be

http://www.ontheroadwithjudy.com/heresjohnnybyjudyjones.htm

Broke my heart.

Beautiful! Could you also send us your short articles by email? I (we!) would appreciate it! :)

Thank you!

Thanks Derek, you’ve really nailed it in this short piece :)

Wow, that got me emotional. Thanks for that!

As always, inspiration-dense!

What a sad account.
You still have a cherished place in this world.
Maybe hold still a bit.
I just lost my mother who was my best friend and hero. I was in free fall and no bottom to rest on. I took two jobs to keep very busy. It has helped.
If you are in grief try something to keep on a mindless routine. And much love to you.

As a man in his 60's, this gave me the chills. Then the tears and all the emotions of how close I am to saying goodbye. Its hard to accept but its out of our hands. Thanks for all you do Mr. Sivers.

Really love this Derek - thank you.

Reminds me of software code which builds upon itself over time. Me? I’m version 5.0 right now crossing the world for the 3rd time :)
Very relevant and beautifully stated. Thank you.

damnit. beautiful. reminds me of “Do You Realize?” by the flaming lips. incredibly written.

That's good ... a good life, Derek.

"May you stay forever young."

Just love. Don't stop.

Richard

Reading this while sitting in a small, picturesque restaurant called "5eCinque" in the art district of Florence on a spontaneous four day trip immediately made me have goosebumps... and rekindled the almost forgotten idea of booking an around the world ticket - to see as many beautiful places as possible, get to know cultures and make new friends, and bring the spirit and joy of new impressions and thoughts back home. So thank you for this inspiration Derek - and see you around on one of those world crossings...

Derek,

Nice work. I thought the length was really good- especially for us with shirt attention spans.

Doug

A real gift you are.

Cross the world a fifth time.

Spread your ashes or plant your body and create new growth.

Life is so precious and beautiful! Thank you for reminding us of the journey!
My dear soul sister's Gramma who is almost 104 and making her transition has been a lover of life and all of its richness and she will be missed.
But what she learned and taught can never be forgotten!

Great piece to think and digest!

I'll be happy if I get to cross the world once ☺

There's so much to see it'd be hard to do it 4 times.

But yes, I get the symbolism of it as well - thanks Derek!

I think there should be 5 crossings. The 5th should be what’s now the 4th, the goodbye crossing. The 4th should be an amalgam of the 1st three - discovery and observation, being an advocate for what you’ve learned that works and posing the important questions that you have no answers for to people who may or who may find them. Otherwise, any wisdom that you gain after your 30s that is new or the result of relearning after unlearning is not helpful to others.

I must be the only person who doesn’t quite get “Kiss and fall and promise to them all.”

The same water never flows under the bridge twice!

Having just started my 20's a few months ago, realizing that I still have 10 years of falling and falling in love left, is relieving. Thank you.
It's easy to fall for the illusion that if you're not changing, impacting, shaping anything consciously to better the world, you're not doing anything at all. Sometimes, learning and preparing myself can feel like such an invisible and selfish task in the grander scheme of things, and it can be hard to justify to myself.
Thank you for reminding me that I have time, although not infinite amounts, and that preparing to create is also a kind of creating. I'm excited for my ten years of falling in love, and pledge that the 10 years following those will really make a difference for others.

On another note, Derek, I admire the simplicity of your writing. Well written. :)

Well written, well said my friend.

So true. Thank you, Derek.

I am incredibly grateful to be alive in this day of age. Amazing technologies, freedoms, books, amazing foods and the ability to connect with people like yourself across the world! Great time to be alive! :)

It's beautiful, poetic. I feel it's wisdom and taste it's pain physically in my mouth and chest. These visceral sensations are usually accessed through music for me so there is something powerful in these few words.

I love that I get to share goosebumps with people all over the world. Thanks for facilitating Derek.

Profound!

It is deep, and I can relate.
But perhaps there's more... how about the discovery of the spiritual, the true being and the nothingness of everything, the still state...

Thanks for sharing.
Cheers.

Beautiful. Made my eyes water too.

beautiful!

Reminds me of something my grandfather used to say quite often: You can’t put an old head on a young body.

Beautiful!
I am now in my 50's and I must say it is my favorite time. My children are in the teens and 20's. I love watching their zest for life, their worlds unveiling. My 16 year old has all the answers, life is exciting and easy, he can't wait to get moving and solve the worlds problems. My 26 year old is recently married and is learning the secrets of life, limitations real and imagined. Life is a journey that is as much fun to take as it is to watch.
Thank you for your beautiful writings.
Barbara

My 3rd time to cross the world starts next year and my mental plans are in place. Thank you and peace always be with you.

why am I crying right now?

Thank you.

You touched me hard in this one. I had to translate it to portuguese. https://fabricioperuzzo.com.br/2019/09/27/cruze-o-mundo-quatro-vezes/

Wow. Life in a nutshell.

Gorgeous! Goose bump material! Thank you! I'm re-reading now.

I honestly didn't see it coming when it hit me and I cried... That third crossing started to get a little melancholy for me, and then BOOM! That fourth one was a sucker punch to the gut, or maybe the heart? Somewhere in that solar plexus region. On a website called chakras.info I found this: “Radiate your power in the world,” could say the solar plexus chakra. Characterized by the expression of will, personal power, and mental abilities, the energy of the third chakra or Manipura in Sanskrit is mobilized when we assert ourselves in the world." Everyone needs a good release sometimes and reading this particular blog post of yours helped because I rarely cry - definitely not often enough. I feel kind of locked up about it, like, "What's the point. Just keep it pushin.'" I cried, to my surprise, when realized I had already taken that fourth trip.😳 Anyway, I WAS going to start my comment by saying that not everyone can literally cross the world - maybe not even once... Although everybody, given the chance, would love to see the world, some people only get to see the world from their perspective. While travel does broaden our horizons, it is yet possible for people to experience awakenings and realizations at various points along their journey of life even if they stay put, traveling within a small circle that, to them, represents the tangible world as they know it. I later read your response to another reader ("It's a metaphor) and realized that my whole point was moot! 😅 So, then, the most important thing is that I cried. My tears watered my stiff, leathery old soul, 😂 and I guess that's just what I needed today. 😊

Nice. What you say about unlearning in your 50s is so true. Often look back at my younger, angrier, overly self-righteous self and laugh these days.

This is beautiful, Derek. Perhaps, at each stage, we say goodbye to what was. Through deep self-awareness, compassion, reflection, and empathy, we say hello to what is.

The plant at the end of the post speaks to the essence of truth. Truth is rooted in wisdom. As the roots of the tree deepen, its trunk and branches grow toward the sky (our aspirations) reflecting the strengths and structure of the roots.

Thank you!

Lovely piece. I was moved by the line "to find old friends and find that they are gone." I've experienced that.

I am currently on a life-break about to head to South Africa. I've stayed domestic (USA) the past few months and have been reflecting on my epic adventure ten years ago where I wandered the world on a sailboat etc. I was almost 40 then, almost 50 this time. Your post gave me new ways to view the journey.

For me, travel is like working out the jigsaw puzzle of the world. I spend a little time here, a little time there, examining the pieces, figuring out small sections, eventually connecting them together when I least expect it.

Thanks for writing.

Beautiful.

Done the 20th and nearly done with 30th...

Humble is truly the destination to unlearn.

Thank you

How interesting!

Hi Derek,

Your writing is always compelling and precise, which almost leads me to agree without thinking. And though you touch on so much truth in the detail, I heartily disagree. This is one story, not all. And young and old are not divided by hard lines... they can work together to renew and restore one another. And hell, I'm still preparing for my big break so I am definitely not going to meekly go to the mountain top to die, even in 30 years when I am genuinely old. I will persist and if I don't succeed, at least I've annoyed my enemies and inspired my kindred spirits. Please keep writing... you are fabulous.

The fifth time, from your vantage in Eternity whisper true Wisdom, guide with your gentle hands, embrace and console, share true Love.
The fifth time, love forever.

The first time I read, I traveled through your words, snippets of all I have seen and experienced, all the wonderful people who have been and are a part of my life.

The second read took my journey deeper and I saw how in each part of my life, in each experience there is the possibility and the cycle for love, change, unlearn, and moving on to the next cycle. In this sense, I would add the need to integrate as the process which brings all worlds and experienced together in a loving whole. A whole ready and willing to support the next part of my journey.

Life is a journey. Thanks for this ipriceless view!

Well Said Derek, It’s is so poetic and lovely. I felt like it was talking to me as I am in my mid 20’s and planning to travel around the world.

I will remember this.

That was poetry. Nearly made me cry.
I fell in love for one day with a young Russian girl, who spotted me, took my hand and showed me all over Moscow. I was 23. I gave her my parents address. I was supposed to meet her at the “putchta” (post office) the next evening, my last night there, but became ill. I didn’t know how to contact her (in the days before cell phones!) so I never showed up. Years later a letter appeared at my mother’s house. It was sweet. That was 32 years ago. Travel in your 20’s to fall in love, indeed. Your article made me think of it. Nice way to start the day, Dereck.

Excellent...loved it, wouldn't change a thing. I'm on my 3rd time around and you are exactly correct! As for the comments from #2 Suzanne Brooks, why do leftist's have to inject their misery into every conversation. Something so beautifully written only brings thoughts of the wonder and beauty of life. Not corrupt politicians, climate change or a campaign ad for Elizabeth Warren. Are you people never happy.....??

Thanks Derek.

Love and be loved, all of you.

H

Thanks for this Derek. Simple, beautiful, and real.

love this, and find words fail me.

What we need to learn as quickly as possible is that we all are unique. We all have skills that are unique, not always better than others but different in perception. These abilities allow us to contribute, not to boast. As we get mature we can help by teaching those that want to learn. That's how we may be remembered as opposed to being advertised. Some may not have teaching abilities, but can be observed and therefore teach that way. Our abilities can be helpful and enjoyed in many ways.

The days of unrestricted travel for anyone and everyone likely are going to end as the Great Emergency is declared in the wake of environmental and financial collapse.
Watch your carbon footprint

OM brother.

Beautifully said. In my experience, and maybe it's because I'm staring down the barrel of my third crossing to compensate for what I think I know, I believe it's the "crossing" that's the important part. You can't sit in the suburbs and let the world come to you. You've got to go get it.

As was once said, the best stories are found between the pages of a passport. It is indeed my most valued possession.

Amazing! I am 30 and I am exactly where you say I am hahaha

Reminds me of the story of 10 bulls used in Zen.
It got me really emotional for a moment. After thinking about it for a while this rings true.
It felt too smooth and idealized. I didn't find intense suffering to drive the change. As if it was microdosed to perfection. The shock of realising the contrast between the ideal and my story so far is what got me there. Envisioning this ideal brought great and momentary solace. :,-)

My sincere gratitude! I could see and feel much from your reflections. Screenplay! You could make a movie from is alone!

so, so, so, so true.
thanks for sharing, derek.

At 77, I have crossed the world (literally) 75 to 90 times, seen a bunch, learned about the planet, the power of invention, poverty, wealth, (been to the Pope's house), and still I am interested in what comes next! "Youth is wasted on the young!" Great quote. I learn things everyday. No idea of what my health will support, but I look forward to doing lots more stuff!
Best wishes,
Gary

As always, you bring reality to us in a gracious and honest way.
I enjoyed Tripp’s 1 and 2 around the world, but I will appreciate 3 and 4 much more...

Happy traveling...

Okay, just read it out loud to my wife and it made my eyes water

It's lovely, Derek. We met once at the Business of Software conference nearly twenty years when I was in my second crossing. I'm in my third now having sold the company I founded and I spent most of last year on a road trip with my wife that ended up relocating us thousands of miles away.

I started to write a comment suggesting that your third stanza felt a little harsh to me. "compensate", "years of thinking others wrong" and "without judgement for once" struck me as self-recriminating and a bit negative in contrast to the other three stanzas. I have been feeling my own third crossing more as a time of clearing my head of certainty and being willing again to take life in anew. Of falling in love again, like the first stanza.

But, maybe it's better just the way it is. It's bold and gives the piece a stronger dramatic arc. And in the process of writing my objections I've been reminded of some of my own arrogance. Which is maybe the point.

Loved this. I think you can unlearn in your 30s and 40s too if you’re lucky.

Very nice! Thanks for the heads up I might skip nr 2 then 😅
Crossing the world is worth it every time!

Wow ... that was profound ... a little bit of work and this could be turned into a song!

I am on the eve of my 30s so I will take sober note of “having all of the answers.” It’s easy for me to wax poetic about the life lessons I’ve learned in my 20s, but there’s a lot way (hopefully!) to go.

Amen.

GREAT INSIGHT TO LIFE DEREK!
This is a song I wrote:
"SPIRITUALLY ALIVE"
Chorus:
I'm spiritually alive
Spiritually alive
PHYSICALLY you can not see me
But Spiritually you know I'm alive
When you look into a mirror
Spiritually I'm in your eyes
Though PHYSICALLY you can not see me
Spiritually you know I'm alive
1st
Looking into a mirror
Looking from our eyes
Our eyes are a window to our soul
The mirror has no Disquise
So when you look into a mirror
It will come as no surprise
Cause spiritually you will see me
And spiritually you'll know I'm alive
2nd
As I Surround you with my presence
You are able to feel my Love
Though PHYSICALLY you can not see me
God will let you know from above
We know we're Spiritually connected
With our Father's Love
We we're born to live forever
Together in Heaven above
Hal Gullick c2019
www.cdbaby.com/cd/eternallife

Very moving, Derek. You are a treasure. The sooner the better that the young people like Greta and Malala take ownership of this world.

Deep, thoughtful.

You've exposed yourself so broadly since CD Baby. Almost like it was a lifetime ago.

Peace and love my friend.

Eric

I'm about to cross the world for the very first time

This post made my heart race. So many thoughts are going through my mind: about mistakes and possibly a wrong decisions which I have to make it into a blessing...

Thanks again, Derek!

Meg

This is gorgeous. Thank you.

(I am 51 now, and "unlearning.")

I am LIVING happily in my 3rd time. Loving more, judging less. Blessed beyond measure that I get to keep trying to be better.

Profound, real, and beautiful.

This was really touching, Derek. Thanks!

I've been reading your stuff for about two decades now and I realized this morning that I've never commented on any of it. What an introvert I am. Your words seem to always resonate with me and I look forward to them. You've helped me so much over the years. Thanks Derek!

On another note, what an absolute blow-hard I was in my 20s and early 30s. It's humiliating to think about sometimes! In my late 30s, I was completely leveled. I wasn't broken; I was destroyed. I managed somehow to pull myself together and now in my 40s, I can't believe how much I've rebuilt, how happy I am, and how much more I hope to do.

I now start every day thinking of things I'm grateful for and while I'm having my morning coffee, I know how fortunate and lucky I am to even be here. That alone fills me with immense gratitude and it's a welcomed flood.

Somewhat depressing to read this, Derek, but it does sum it up, doesn't it?

Unfortunately, most people are going to take this to mean _fly_ across the world to see it. Burning jet fuel is by far the worst thing we do to add to global warming on a per-person green house gas volume basis. The only hope we have of slowing global warming is if, and it's big if, us first-worlders stop flying.

Derek, this is so right! It is exactly what I have done, inadvertently... except for the last time..
I have been traveling quite purposely the past two years only to visit friends and say goodbye, potentially. I am only 68 but have a strong sense of mortality and, now, am starting to feel my carbon footprint needs to subside. So, I have one more year to travel to see friends.. there are a few left I haven't seen in a while.. then, I will stay home in Seattle. Thank you for your continued writing. I enjoy being on your list a great deal.

Perfect timing on this post, thank you.

A human being would certainly not grow to be seventy or eighty years old if this longevity had no meaning for the species. The afternoon of human life must also have a significance of its own and cannot be merely a pitiful appendage to life's morning. Carl Jung

Perfect. Thanks man

This is lovely...I missed second and third times but eagerly await my number 4 opportunity. Made me smile/sad

Why not five times? my folks are in there 80s and are still traveling the world. You row your own boat in life:)

Wow! Beautiful! Thank you for writing it.

The last part makes me think of something I learned while taking care of an elderly woman. She said in the end of life we learn to let go. We let go of running fast, being independent, of having a sharp memory, of cooking for ourselves, of traveling with little effort, running errands with little thought of difficulty, and making passionate love, and so much more. Some day I will no longer be able to play my guitar, ride a bike, hike up a mountain, travel to China, and so much more.

Hi Derek,

I liked the article! I didn't feel like the age numbers needed to be said since there was already mentioned that you are going around for the first time, second time, etc.

Beautifully written! (and so true)

Thank you Derek - hope you are well.

Thank you very much for this

For me to comment is for me to break the "spell" of your taste, style and judgment.
Leave it elegantly as it is.
Thank you.

Made my eyes water, too. Thanks, Derek. ☺

That was beautiful. I made me misty too. This is my last time...around the neighborhood.

Beautiful.

Seeing to learn, and learning to see, endless cycle of the evolution, of which we only "get" a small glimpse in the years which are given to us.

Reminds me also of the eastern adage: you can't cross the same river twice.

Difficult to improve on it! Great writing. I'll try to improve on it with a recall of my mentor's last thoughts. Give me a few days. Thank you.

Poignant. Touching. Tender. Thank you.

That was lovely, apt and wise;
And brought water to my eyes...

Thanks, as always, for sharing Derek.

GJB

I've crisscrossed the world of music for almost 50 years now and soon a film about the artists and adventures I've had will share that amazing trip.

Poetic, I think I'll try write a song around this idea.

Wow! Beautiful message..Thank you for sharing..

Beautiful

This is really great. Thank you for sharing.
Wishing you happiness at each crossing.

Ah, but I was so much older then, I'm younger than that now...

SO many of us wait to the end... before we start at our beginning.

We wait to live, until it's almost too late.

True freedom is knowing we always have the choice to do either.

Thank you Derek... you're the only writer I follow who truly makes me think outside the square box.

Shawn

Goosebumps!

Thanks Derek!
Yup.Small as my little world is, it still takes a while for that fourth time, and that journey is open ended because your legacy continues to cross the world long after you've left it.
:)

Dear Derek, this is amazing in its fable like, poetic truth, it reminded me of The Prophet, by kahlil gibran. Thank you for sharing

This is lovely like a poem, and oh so true. I am so much "dumber" now than I was in my 30s.

Beautiful introspection. Thanks for sharing!

Love this - As I'm 71 now, I'm reflecting on my life and this says it all.

This is just plain awesome! I'm 58 and you're spot on, thanks for writing those words.

No words to describe the feelings this evoked... I teared up at the end and my heart felt like it swelled a little in my chest.

Thank you for writing this.

Beautiful and elegant.

Beautiful piece Derek- thanks for sharing.

Beautifully written Derek—it pulled me in quickly and dropped me off thinking. It’s a good reminder to take notice of what stage we’re really in and decide what’s next.

I think we cross these divides at different ages sometimes, and maybe even revisit them to complete what we could not at another time in our life. You’ve presented a thought-provoking roadmap for self reflection—thank you!

The fifth time: time is an abstraction. You live, a day is a day, now, yesterday, tomorrow. The beginning of time. The end of it all. It's all the same. The fifth time and the first are one. The beginning. The end. All is yours. The order does not matter. Right now, or 50 years from now. You can say it's all the same. You are free. Or rather. The universe is free. From you. You are free.

Thank you for sharing Derek.

Love this! What a great way to bring understanding to the different walks of life. Thank you for writing <3

Beautiful, thoughtful, could only have been written by a person after their 4th crossing and whose eyes are still open.

At the tender age of 77, I am not ready to pack it in yet, but friends are dropping out right and left. It has certainly been getting my attention. We are mow caring for the dog of a friend who said goodbye a couple months ago.

One question this article brings to mind is, is this your way of telling us, your readers, goodbye?

Hmmm...maybe true, but too sad. I like the "unlearning" process. I'm there right now myself - but not in my 50s yet! However, I'm not quite so sure about the dead not being "part of it anymore." To be honest, I listen their voices a lot. They teach me a lot about life.

Beautiful Derek, just beautiful. Just starting the unlearning process after much humbling this year. Thank you for this.

thanks for shring this wonderful idea . well written and words to live by.

cannot afford to travel far and wide

I’m afraid to travel to upset my little world routine.
Your words are nudging me to see the world for the first time.

very true! I like the humility of that piece, too.
This reminds me of the two phases of a variety performer. Remember those days, Derek ?! I think it applies to many other free-lancers, too:
1. Make the it (the show) bigger and better. Aim for more gigs and bigger crowds. Acquire more props, bigger sound, more professional support. At some point , you max out. the rest of your career you...
2. Simplify. How can you lighten the load ? What can you do without ? What work do you turn away?

Hey Derek - interesting thoughts. I am somewhere between third and fourth. And I have had to re-invent myself, as a newly single (widowed) woman. I have cultivated new friendships from 23 yr olds up. The inter-generational mix is so energizing. I learn much from those both younger and older. It does not always mean that the older we get more wisdom or knowledge is attained. I think it is dangerous to be "set in our ways". It is when we continue to be interested, engaged and open to new and exciting relationships and ideas that life is truly joyful and meaningful. To stagnate in our own insulated ways diminishes us.

Great stuff as always Derek! I hope you and yours are well and prosperous! “Always complicated when in the lead, thoughts and ideas others can’t see; who will document my future but me.” - John Fitzpatrick (me) 😀

Pretty Heavy Bro!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCeSFjTXQKg

Love this!
An interesting departure from your standard blogs. Thought provoking.

Beautiful!
But please tell me it’s not time for you to say goodby!
Every time I find your mail in my inbox I know Im up for a treat <3

So sad since I’m in the late in life stage 😢

Love reading your stuff. Always thoughtful. Best insight: "You realize what a blow-hard you were in your 30s, and how little you actually know. You’ve been humbled." Perfect! But I wonder if there isn't one more between 3 and 4 where you unlearn, and then relearn with experience, humility and wisdom and have something to offer the world before 5.

I believe this is a wonderful description of
how to make our live more meaningful .

Experiment
Learn
Unlearn
Appreciate

Thanks Derek for this :)

So much of this resonates with me. I've already done two of the trips you've described. But I've got at least 2 more trips to look forward to!

Very nice. Very wise!

Beautiful, concise sentiments, and I like the way you break up the life journey in this stylish way. For me, however, somewhat (too) melancholy in the latter stages - maybe because I am beginning to live them (!) - and not exactly the way I perceive them. In our fifties we also have things to contribute from what we have learned, and wiser ones than earlier, though I agree we need to and often do listen more. In the last stage, which I look forward to but am not in a hurry to get to (!), I imagine there is the sadness of watching people depart and recognising and accepting our mortality, something I have become very cognisant of at this stage already.

Life is certainly a journey, and grateful to you for sharing your creative thoughts and spurring some of ours, for me on this mellow Friday evening in Moscow. Thank you, Derek.

Thanks, Derek. Very well written! At 71, you pretty much summed up for me how I've crossed the world over the years. Something to think about!

Thanks for writing this, Derek. It is very powerful for someone my age (I'm 65). I sent this to a few younger friends to find out how it makes them feel...

Thomas

Sounds very humbled.

Wisdom is not an easy thing
It’s a simple thing
And Derek got Tons of It

Your forever little fellow student,
Vieri

Hi Derek,

Thank you for sharing. I enjoyed your book "anything you want". What lead me to you and your book - was, I think - an interview between you and Tim Ferriss. Keep up the good work.

Time Fly's Like An Arrow, Fruit Fly's Like A Banana

I'm turning 81 in January. Just started my memoirs. Working title: MY Almost Career"

Goodness... what a piece. Certainly one to ponder for a while. Happy/sad face image pops up several times. Sobering...

Love this, Derek. Pretty accurate too. Thanks for sharing this.

So true, I love this.

This resonates with me so much, Derek. Having lost most of my life to addiction, I missed out on my first and second crossings. But when addiction nearly killed me, I was given a gift. It was the start of my third crossing, as I unlearned all I knew. I've since gone back to one and two, another gift, but life is tricky. My ego is always fighting back, and sometimes I lose touch with my third crossing. That's why I want to thank you. Wisdom like this always brings me back home, and with a bit of work, I hope to make those final two crossings. Not many articles make me feel emotional, so thank you for that too. Take care, Brian.

Couldn't agree more

Some people say that people live in these increments of 7 years. So from birth to 6 years old (roughly 1st grade in most countries) you are a baby learning just to survive. From 7-13 you're in grade school learning to learn and socialize. Many people in the 2nd and 3rd world don't learn beyond this and start working and contributing to their family after just their 2nd stage in life.

From 14-20 many people learn love, sex and their first real disappointments and heart break. But the best is yet to come and while some rush to have babies and start families it is the next stage that seems to be most crucial. Some make a huge amount of friends, and some very little.

From 21-27 most people's lives are set and the trajectories of their lives are seemingly determined by this stage. This is when people graduate from post-secondary if they go to college, get their first real jobs, start earning and becoming adults for the first time with many friends all around. Many struggle with identity, finding themselves, and their sexuality. It is in this stage that some just ossify and don't grow beyond ever. Some people say whatever you are doing at 27 you will most likely do "for the rest of your life." Many will argue, but think back to what you did at 27. Is it that much different than what you are doing now?

From 28-34 the ones that survive and thrive continue to grow and start making real achievements and successes. The building upon your previous successes really begins here, as does the first set of divorces and real financial challenges. Others just continue their trajectory towards the wrong direction, and never really build anything at all.

From 35-41, some see their kids graduate from high school already and some wonder if they will ever build anything beyond their careers whatever they may be by this time. Accumulation of wealth is for most the highest at this time, and for some it's truly a disaster -- they have very little or have to give it all away to others who want it more.

42-47 is probably the pinnacle of most people's lives. This is when many really are at the peak of their lives, a trajectory set 20 years ago. And some are left wondering when will the terror stop. This is the time I am finishing now, my 6th stage, entering my 7th stage of 48-54 where in theory all you have built so far comes to fruition and you see your own children start to become independent. Many at this point who have accomplished enough slow down in careers and start to coast, working much better with others and levering their money to not have to go so fast. Others continue to drive themselves into an early grave. And some will lead huge adventures and endeavours, leading hundreds or thousands of people in work.

By 55-61 many start to travel the world, see grandchildren or see their own children become married and have their own kids. And others are living alone, seeing very little of the world. By this time you will know yourself as intimately as possible and most likely will do very little other than reinforce the habits you have built up over time. You will do the same things you have always done with the same people.

62-68 seems a mystery to me as it is so far away. As does 68-74, the age of my parents. It seems this is when we start yelling at the TV and separating ourselves from the rest of the world. And others just wait by the phone for their kids to call. 75-81 the beyond this world starts calling and by 81-87 many have passed to the next world. These last 20 years, the last 3 stages of life for most people who are lucky enough to have them should be the most fulfilling and interesting and yet they sometimes look to be the most sad.

I like this. It's very moving.

The last stage doesn't seem to fit with the others though.

First stage:

You want to explore as much as you can and talk to as many different people as you can so you can learn about the world and how it works.

Second Stage:

You want to tell everyone what you've learned. You want to share it with the world because it's so awesome.

Third Stage:

You realize that there's so much more to learn. That you got some stuff wrong, that what you learned wasn't the full picture. You try to find out more to correct this.

Fourth Stage:

You give up?

The first three trips in the story are about learning and knowledge, the last is about realizing you can't change the world. As if that is the point where you stop learning because there is no point to it. Surely that is not the message of this post?

Do love your writing, it runs so deep.

I'm in my 30s and think I know it all. I'm not looking forward to being wrong, haha.

It’s interesting to ponder the crossing I am currently on, and how I might be able to make four crossings simultaneously, rather than four discrete ones. Thanks for writing - I will share it with my family.

Hey Doll.

Usually love what you write, but today's thoughts were depressing!
I am 78 and I think enuf about what looms in my future while still being an very active creative in a few genres..
Don't need reminding ...

xo g.

Alternate Stage 4:

You've discovered the truth and find it horrifying so you try and protect yourself from it by going into denial and focussing on the past.

Thanks for this Derek,
I'm not sure I agree entirely. I appreciate that you goaded me to stop, pay attention, and think. There's no space for mentoring here. And perhaps that's intentional. I don't know. But, thanks.

Hi Derek,
Love this article. I feel like I am approaching the final big phase of my life. I am doing a lot more listening and a lot less talking. Thanks.

Just the way it goes, all done and dusted. Now it's writing about it, remembering.

Hope you're doing well, lots of love from Down Under
☺ <3 ☺ A.

Derek, I personally think there is nothing to change in this. You gave the complete run through of life and the thought processes we should embrace. As an artist this article gave me a lot of clarity to the fact that I'm experiencing life through the right phases. Thanks :)

Heavy, but sincere. For me, life has had its challenges but it has been great; and that's what it is all about, right - to live, love, learn, and grow. I'm counting on the hereafter to live on with those I love, continue with everlasting life-long learning, and grow into my heavenly nature. So, I like to think (and I do base my opinion on reliable information, ie., the Bible) the last trip around the world is to say, "Until we meet again :)"

The wisdom part is when you learn that life is more about others and the humility to understand it.
Thank you

Hi Derek,

thank you for sharing. This is an interesting piece.
There lies a beauty within but somethings bugging me into
writing.
While reading, I was filled with a strange kind of regret at all stages
and a feeling that something fundamental in the narrative, if I might call it so, is missing.
This obviously is only my perception and the meaning I derive from it.
Nonetheless, I feel the need to write. There's a darkness lurking.
If I'd have to put my finger on the form of regret, I'm perceiving,
it would be: The regret of having stepped out of generativity.
Every stage of life here seems to revolve solely around itself. There's no sense of connection, obligation, and responsibility. No concept of love. Love, as in putting effort into something that needs the effort to evolve without the protagonist being connected to the outcome.
Farming, forestry, and buildings like the Sagrada Familia might suggest a different perspective as might some leaders, especially in the Asien hemisphere (currently thinking of Jack Ma).

"You realize what a blow-hard you were in your 30s, and how little you actually know."

If the 50-year-old person has this perception of the 30-year-old guy – what will the 70-year-old person think about the 50-year-old fellow?
Will we realize how foolish we were at 50? Obviously assuming our memory don´t abandon us beforehand.
The older generations certainly won't say it to your face, but I occasionally catch a glimpse of the knowing smile.

"To appreciate the young. The world is theirs, not yours."
Is this really true? Will this be true?
Hopefully, the appreciation will be there as it always should be towards any given generation.
I wonder if I'll perceive this to be true when I hit this stage.
I'd like to believe this will evolve into what it was in former centuries -
a tiny shared part of the world that is, by necessity, handed down (or up, for that matter)through generations. One generation thinking for the next and hopefully improving the potential for the future, without dwelling too much on personal achievement and legacy. Knowing your place and resting assured that you picked up the baton and carried it for whatever length of time it was yours to carry.
Then dying, hopefully, will be easy.
No regrets. No remorse. No, nay, never, no more.

I don't know if this makes any sense, or if I completely missed the point of your writing.
If so, forgive me for rambling and abusing your comments section to clarify my gut reaction.

All the best,

James

That was really beautiful. Thank you for sharing this.

That was touching, But life here is about transforming ones self to Jesus Christ, accepting salvation from our creator,repenting of our sinful nature, and looking so forward to eternity with Him! knife

Bittersweet and poignant. Thank you.

Simple and beautiful. Very Herman Hesse! (Particularly “Narcissus and Goldmund or Siddhartha).

Heavy but beautiful post. This part really stuck with me because I've never anyone put it this way: Now you know what happens when you die: everything! ... You just won’t be part of it anymore.

You got this right my friend. We are at our zenith when we know we don’t know and are perfectly
fine with it. Beginners mind. Eckhardt Tolle calls it the “New Earth”. When we get out of our own
way and are comfortable in silence, no longer trying to cater to the ego and truly alive in this, the only moment. That is when we graduate 🌎

Derek, S(h)ivers.

Perfect timing thank you Derek. I'm in my mid 50s and realising that I was a complete blow hard dumb bum in my earlier years and now it's time to unlearn.I'll enjoy thinking about your words in my daily going's on...nicely written, kia ora

Sounds poetic and so true. I know what you mean D but, as always, Easy to say Hard to do, i'll try my best in the rest of my life.

This sounds interesting, although as someone over 50, my thoughts are that it's not just about travel, there's also learning and contributing where you are, right now. I mean that's what most people do, although some of us may travels miles to see them do it.

This is amazing and so true! just makes me want to continue to strive and make the most of life, its so short and theres no way back, thanks for sharing Derek

I don't know. I think maybe this one is too sad.

Beautiful, Derek. Thank you. It's almost tangible, how the writing of this made your eyes water. And what comes to mind is a quote by Joseph Campbell, each time, dare we ask, aware, awake: “The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty ‘yes’ to your adventure.” Thank you so much.

You start to see things when you get older, don't you? It's happening to me too.

Nobody likes getting old, but maybe we need to appreciate the wisdom we've gained and not complain so much about our aging bodies. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

It's all part of the circle of life.

Glad I was in the circle with you.

This is beautiful, but it's a bit abstract for my tastes. I want the hard practical advice dammit!

Dear Derek, I like it. A nice metaphor. It is important to reach out and live in different parts of the world. Without a doubt an enriching experience. The second crossing becomes difficult when suggesting making a change. In reality we are not at liberty to make fundamental changes without making uncomfortable concessions. I think that there is a sequel in the making taking the journey a step further. Best regards, Alex

thank you derek. truly.
and i will.

Lovely

Missing friends I lost along the way, too. The places we met are still full of memories, as if we met just yesterday. - Maybe we'll meet again, in a next life, becoming friends again, without even knowing we've already been there before. Like two entangled quantums on their journey through time and space, where seperation becomes an illusion. We are still one. And I still miss them.

Thank you for your inspiring posts, Derek. This here is a gem.

Cross the world at ANY time or age. Why?
Because it’s never too late to change - to learn;
And to make a new contribution. If Your mind
And heart are still open to receive new
Environments and new ideas, then you still
Have more to give - and the world needs you
... as we need YOU, Derek!

Going through the hardest things in my life right now. This made me cry so much--but in a good way.
Thank you for all that you do!

Nobody’s ever told me they wanted to put something I wrote to music. Sure happened here a lot. That must feel amazing. :)

I will effort to move to my third trip earlier

In my 40’s, I have already been humbled.

Mahalo for keeping it simple.

K

Thanks Derek,
Best Regards
Jan

This is stunningly beautiful. It made my eyes water as well. I will cherish this for years to come. Thank you so much.

I am so touched.
Sushill

I agree with Steve Wyman...There is definitely a song in there. Excellent post Derek!

What an important read! Thank you so much for letting us imagine the fleeting stages of life. Time and right choices should be in order..! We are only privileged to do important goals one timeline at a time to find our own stars. There is no alibi to it or time will only run us over.

Thanks Derek, for sharing our common stages in life. Life's many cultures often see life go thru such stages, similar to the ones you describe here. The natives had it figured out long time ago. In the Wheel of Life we go thru nine different lodges, each of them four times nine months - or roughly three years. Nine times three makes twenty-seven years, and we are back in the centre of the wheel again. At about fifty-four we have completed the second round, at eighty-one the third - or rather, start of fourth..

Dear Derek.

As usual your words touch every soul.

This is so beautiful and so compact. I pray that one day will come wehere I can write as beautiful as you do.

I was wondering: are you in touch with sacred Amazon medicines as ayahuasca, Peyote .or maybe shrooms..?

Much much love and thank you for inspiring all over

Olga

Well shit... so simple and so profound and true. Nice Derek.

Dear Derek, don't worry you will live on after you have left this physical body - the journey goes on and on, Consciousness is independent of the physical body ...
love and peace Peter Panduranga

A great description of life.

I respect and appreciate your thoughts, words. I feel it’s all individual.
What kind of consciousness you carried from childhood led to what relationships you chose.
When did you have children (me, 3 daughters) and what did you do for money and when? After children the focus changes. I only know what happened involved service to others, and it was easy to love but hard to ever be the same as before. Sure, I wrote and still write music, but the dreams of changing the world to the masses got a bit more intimate. It’s huge in my mind, though, ha ha!
I don’t know if I Recognize a certain age where I thought I was smarter than another age, but I am constantly learning.
My daughters are my teachers for sure! 💓💓💓

beautiful, sad, and true...

Wisdom

Just terrific, and as I near my 50s I especially appreciate the sentiment on the 30s.

Beautiful... reminds me of Aesop’s Fables when
I was younger.

The world belongs to the Elite and they will use the power of AI to censor, enslave, and kill any who do not align with the program. Wikipedia is being re-written to fit the narrative. Electronic book burning. The borgs are coming. Getting the brain chip is the next phase. Elon says it's rolling out soon. Flying machines who will patrol and take us out. If you only knew how bad things really were. If they impeach Trump over something he never said the world we knew is gone. There is no hope.

May I add....
Gratitude, with every step, for bringing YOU into this world, Derek!

So true!

Moving, elegant, truthful - and when done in a different order, can appear as genius. This is a gem you have polished. Best to you Derek!

Inspiring

I love the challenge, and in 2020 I plan to take it. Cannot cross the world physically, but my thought processes and actions within the constraints of what cannot be shifted will "cross the world".

Love your attitude and your thoughts.

The article delivers powerful truth in simple terms, with a clear call to action. Perfect for reflection and inspiration to take ones own trip across the world

Best Peter

Hey Derek! I've read your new article four times! I love it man! Thank you for creating it for us!
Trey:)
http://www.WhiskeyChild.com

Wherever you are in the world Derek, thank you for this one.

My favorite response is Elaine at #62 being "humbled beyond words."

My own feeling right now is like Luis at #232 where time is an abstraction, and I live in a world of now. I feel we share the world at each of our ages, "stages" which needn't have a predictable or standard order—oh, how unpoetic that sounds!

My pet peeve is a fellow down at #103ish being annoyed at the literal idea that normal people can afford world travel, while way-y-y- back at #9ish, in a reply to Sue, Derek said it was a metaphor. Yes!

Folks, in all his posts, at one level, Derek always uses metaphors because he is not handing us a fish for a day, he is encouraging us to make netloads of fish by thinking for ourselves. Just as, say, he applies suit-and-tie business lessons to the artsy music world.

Each of us is living a unique life, and for Derek to supply us with a long list of left brain advice would be silly. Instead, we all have the power to set our intention to think for ourselves how to apply any of his posts. For this one, I love how so many commenters are poetic themselves, without knowing it.

Here's my application: I could, in theory, travel across town in my aerodynamic bubble shaped car from one bubble to another.
Instead, I take a rectangular bus with open windows, smelling grass and homey hydrocarbons, my hear swelling with goodwill towards the ethnics at the end of the line, and the unwed teen students with their strollers near Saint Pauls, and having a conversation with the fellow in the funny hat across from me.

Members of the younger generation expect to like people, and be liked in turn—and this innocence we all retain, at some level. Or so I believe.

I'm in my thirties and know everything, but also realize that I know nothing, which is part of what I know...looking forward to crossing the world again in the future.

Loved this. Thank you for sharing.

Loved it, you’re spot on right!!

Good morning Derek! Just drinking my coffee with cardamom and eating a cinnamon bun I made....Yum!
All the good times when we are young?? I don't know, I think as long as we live we have a contribution to the world and moments to enjoy probably more learning can go on as we can be less self-focussed. Do we ever really say goodbye? I think our presence lives on, and what we leave behind. That's why I wrote my song "I'm a Poem" because we really do not end but are transferred through dimensions. Tony Franklin played an amazing bass on my tune and you can hear it on my website if you wish. ☺ Hopefully, the love we may try to share will be embraced and passed on into eternity. ☺
Have a great Saturday Derek!
Rachel☺
www.rachelwalkertrio.com

After reading this piece, I feel like there's a lot that's unsaid than what was written down. It does have a somber tone, and an uplifting resonance of the author's awareness of life changes internally and externally.
I'd say I'm on my second crossing.

I just get to read it now. Thank you so much - I got goose bumps!

What a creative and inspiring turn: “what happens when you die: everything!”
I’ll hold onto that one.
THANK YOU! You are a gift.

Hi Derick,
Nice, poignant, fits my experience too!
Blessings Larkin

Hi Derek,
Am in my mid 40s. It hurts to think one day the world will be theirs and not ours anymore. I dread the moment where i would close my eyes for the last time.
Is there anything after life in your opinion? Do we ever come back?

Many don't have the bandwidth or self-awareness to do so. Pity.

Beautyful like Siddharta (Hermen Hesse) but short and precise.

And 40s perhaps is a small clip of time to finally rest into some version of real self. deep inhale... ahhhhhhhhhh. Wow, what a great feeling realizing the lie of all the ads... and starting to understand that it all really can be 'dumb' simple.

Beautiful! Thanks, Derek. It's not the first time you've inspired and lifted me this way. A definite share on my Facebook page~

What a delightful masterpiece to read. Thank you for sharing this piece.

Thank you for sharing this writing. However, I found this a bit hokey and not terribly useful.

Amen to that. I think you can also make the 3rd and 4th crossing in the same series of hops.

Derek,
I really appreciate you.

Your light reached all the way to Hyannis, Cape Cod MA, USA

Beautiful.

I would suggest that "crossing the world" doesn't have to be physical travel, and for most people it can't be, due to finances, as well as caring to leave less environmental footprint.

Crossing the world can apply to the many experiments we make in our careers, social life, and worldview.

As Emerson said, "the more experiments, the better."

That is superb poetry, Derek. Another example of why the world loves you so much. ... What about the fifth time...? If you're on this kind of wise path, I think all you can do on the fifth or later trek is forgive, accept, laugh at it all, and love.

Ha! Sucked me right in. As I read the second time part I was thinking, "What! You don't know crap in your 30s. What's Derek talking about?"

Then I read the third part and smiled. Yeah, Derek gets it.

The rhythm of life. Perfect.

Deep stufff. Touch realization!

It made my eyes water too. But what if we didn't cross the world in our 20s and 30s and are now in our 40s?

Beautiful, Derek. A shiny-eye moment. Bravo.

John

Oh Man!

Derek! Just writing to say this is, for me, who is on lap 3 at the moment - spot on. I shut up more. I find my most regular answers to questions these days is "that depends" to the point I'm thinking of having a tee shirt printed. In a world where I'm seeing more and more certainty coming from less and less insight, it is a strange transformation. I can feel the gentle roots of lap 4 beginning to form
much love and thanks
Rhaya xxx

Beautiful. Very touching!

That's beautiful.

As I approach 50, I see the wisdom in your words. Thought provoking, inspirational work. In my world,I am thankful to have read this.

Many thanks.
Darous

I enjoyed what you wrote. It resonated with me. Sounds like the narration from a student of wisdom.

It's really beautifully written! I guess these thoughts just cross over your head and you wrote them down? Thank you for sharing, it was a good one. Cheers to all the awesome cross overs everyone's gonna have!

Yes, I guess we can try the 50s cross while in the 30s too.

Often it seems trying to teach and change - wgat if what we’re teaching is actually wrong! - isn’t welcomed, necessary or better. But listening and caring always is useful.

That balance between 30s and 50s is thin, but important.

At the same time, we can try to extend the 50s cross. And acknowledge earlier the world never stops, so let’s try to enjoy friends and NOW a bit more.

I hope all is well :)

This is a song...love it...can I borrow, with credit to you as writer
Make it your own! No need to credit me. — Derek

It's beautiful, Derek. I believe you covered everything that needed covering. I was actually hoping I'd be able to add a few things, but there is nothing to add that I can think of. My mind just BOGGLES at your brains!

Brought tears to my eyes. A lovely departure from your typical posts (and still so thoughtfully practical). Thank you for this.

I am at the fourth time.
I have realized that everything I have tried to do in my life has accomplished exactly nothing. The world is still hurtling uncontrollably toward self annihilation, young people are suffering and see that they have no future, and I am a failure as a musician and at everything else, I'm old, tired, and broke, with little left to look forward to. The dream of my generation has died, and most people my age have become cynical, self centered, and uncaring, usually because they had to in order to survive in this brutal jungle. Some in my generation have become part of the problem, and I wonder if I would be the same had I been successful. I have learned to trust nothing, not even myself, or even God, who coldly and heartlessly allows this world to be like it is.
I see this world as a tragedy, more fitting of the word than the most brilliant Greek plays of that type ever written.
Most of my old friends have gone, either to the grave, or they have become unrecognizable to me because they have forgotten so much of the dreams and ideas we once shared. And the young people? The world is not theirs at all, it is becoming the exclusive property of a criminal elite class, who have no heart or soul, and whose only love is their vast personal fortunes, which they want to grow to infinity regardless of the consequences, just so long as those consequences are suffered by someone other than them.
So what has changed? Actually, nothing at all. The world has always been like this, throughout all written history, it's just becoming an even more intense and fast falling version of itself. Like me, it does not have much farther to go. It, too, is dying.

I like this one much, Derek. A true testament to life’s cycle of beauty, service, and love !

I love this! Thank you for sharing!

Sincerely,

Terri Tubolino

I'm on my 3rd go round. Breathing. Thinking: Maybe awareness and discernment is all there is.

A very emotional piece of writing Derek, I resonate with the thoughts at every crossing. Now, in my 50's I realize how much I don't know and the depth of my mortality. My father recently passed, and this article comes at the perfect time to help me to "frame" the recent events. I see I've been on the sidelines in life it's time to get in the game. Thanks Derek.

What a beautiful piece Derek! I’m right in the process of crossing the world #2 now:)

This is so beautiful! It gave me goose bumps.
I'm still in the experience of crossing the world for the first time.
And I can't wait to see whether the next 3 times will be the same as you described.

Perhaps your best piece of writing to date. Unfortunate that many readers take “crossing the world” literally, instead of figuratively as you obviously intended...but most people need to “cross the world” a few times before they can understand poetry. I know I did.

Makes me realize I am ready to cross the world again, maybe this time how nice would it be to do it playing music the hobby I always loved but never gave myself the time to perfect.

There has to be a time to rediscover the lost you you left behind that was never fully developed.

Best wishes Derek. there are no limits but those we put on ourselves

Looove it.

It was so touching that I was welling up. Thank you for sharing such a poetic account of life.

Beautiful, I loved this

Thank you

I love your work!

Love this Derek. Beautiful.

I'm 40 and ready for the third time. Been humbled already.

Hey Derek,

I am 42, what am I supposed to do now? ;-) There is big gap between 30s and 50s...

☺

Cheers,
Daniel

You would never give feedback on such a lovely and personal text. Love from Amsterdam Derek!

Sounds good! If one has the luxury of time and the means to sustain/maintain these journeys? WADDAWAYTOLIVE!!

What a beautiful metaphor on life.

Beautiful. The last part is haunting..

Lovely, and well said, Derek.
You offer us a wonderful perspective, and for me, one that is timely.

It is an honor getting old with you, Sir.

Really great post Derek! As a 20 year old myself, I really appreciate this post as I am travelling soon for study abroad and plan to make some rounds! Love all your work, looking forward to upcoming work!

Wonderful!

Derek,

I appreciated your comment to one of the responses to your "Cross the World" piece. You stated that it's a metaphor. Thank you for making that clear. I have traveled to Europe once in my life and Canada once. At 66 years young, most of my traveling has been via my internal journey and personal evolution. As Jimmy Cliff sang, "Yes, I've got many rivers to cross and it's only my will that keeps me alive." I also appreciate your giveaway to folks in being good with them turning your piece into a song. Your generosity of Spirit is a blessing.

Right on! I feel fortunate that I am able to do it, courtesy of a christmas gift from my brother the pilot gave me — Free travel anywhere American Airlines flies until December 31. I have been traveling like a madman since I last saw you!

Beautiful!! I'm catching up on the new blogs as well. Very nice. Also.... gonna make the leap to fastmail... thanks for the advice.

calming, now, at my last....crossing...……….

RejuveNationz………..

This is lovely. Thanks brother.

It's a shame it must end so soon, but yes, we must make room and let the world grow without us. Our replacements will understand this too. And theirs as well.

Some familiar and identifiable times of my life. Very close recognition of some experiences. Ends sad but true but not fiction, like a great movie of a life that's true.

My skin reacted a lot to your words. Thank you!

Beautiful!

Wonderful! Currently on the first trip at 25 and this brought forth many emotions—good and bad, happy and sad—and for this I say thank you! I have written a poem inspired by this one, funny how that works.
All the best, to you and your family,
Zachary

Omg! it hit a note

That was beautiful and bittersweet and true.

Thank You.

Derek this is beautiful.

As a 21 year old travelling, I read it more as a warning than a directive... reach the 50s stage quicker, listen more than talk, pay close attention... appreciate youth like an old man sent back in time... while still living partially on the 20s level, because it's unavoidable and actually beneficial.

(Wait, does that count as "taking it all in"? Fuck. Guess I'm stuck at 20s then 😛)

Wow. So glad I clicked. Beautiful.

Hi Derek,

Very much enjoyed the article. I’m 63 and like to think I appreciate the different stages of my life. That’s what your story made me think of.

I all does go go by so quickly, at least it feels that way to me.

Hope all is well in your world.

Bruce

Wow--I sent it to everyone I love. I love your stoic way of writing. So simple yet so brilliant. It is not easy to tease out the fluff. We live in a fluffy world. Lots of words to hide from the truth. When you strip it all away, the truth comes out like a bony prominence. Sharp and hard.

Like many, I appreciate this line:
"Now you know what happens when you die: everything!"

Thanks Derek, For your insightful wisdom.
I just wanted suggest on the fourth time around. I saw Tony Bennett at the Hollywood Bowl this last July. He is 92. He sounds pretty good considering his age. I am 66 years old. I looked around the audience most of the people were in their twenty's and thirties. They were singing a long and laughing with Tony.
I look up to these elders that give it their all and inspire us to keep going even if they have more challenges physically or what ever. The fourth time around like you are doing and I also am doing. We are leaving behind now, some of our best work.

Always the best to you, Cesar

This was a very touching post; I felt exactly what you were explaining. saying goodbye is something I hope you and I are both far from. 50's? If I can help it, 50 will only be 40 Percent, however I understand the message.

Brought tears to my eyes. Very poignant. Thank you Derek

Are you dying?
I hope so! — Derek

Very deep and touching reminds me of my song "A DADDY'S PRAYER" written with tears.

Really great lines and thought. Yep I hope we get to cross it a few times more as a ghost or reincarnated with those old friends for a 5th - 6th - 7th and on

"Won't be a part of it anymore".

I've been philophisising about how we will be part of it after we've crossed the world on our last journey. The first three trips cement it so. :)

Loved this and thanks for making me think, as usual.

I'm not crying...YOU'RE crying!!

That was beautiful Derek.
I'm lucky enough that I was able to travel a LOT in my younger days. I've thought for a long time how I would like to do a major trip when I'm older again, to certain very important places, just to see them and be in each place for a while, to remember, and see what has changed.
:)

Love it!

Chills. Smiles. Tears. Beautifully executed.

Derek

I thank Fred Haugen and his 7GT for bringing me to your post.

My first time to cross the world was in my 50"s. I fell in love all over again with my husband. True story.

My second time to cross the world will be to make change.
I will take in your wisdom and also combine my 3rd time during my 2nd trip to also compensate.So Necessary.
And more importantly to unlearn.

So much to engage and elevate in life. No time to ponder crossing the world for the fourth time.

Thank you for the read. Your thoughts are a blessing to me.

I don't know. The first two are very upbeat, as they should be since they're about youth. But the last two are a bit harsh and depressing. Life's midpoint to end, to me since I'm living it, is more mellow/reflective and enjoyable.

Youth is stressful. Old age is far more relaxing and optimistic. Even though life will go on without me and I won't experience all the new things to come, I had my turn. Now it's time to hand over the reins to to those who now have the energy to tackle what's ahead.

I don't find that sad. I find it - the word escapes me, but it's definitely positive and hopeful.

At step two, I was thinking "yeah, no - you don't/can't know everything, so this kind of attitude is silly". And then I got to step three :)

Life hack: start with step three as early as possible. I get that sometimes you have to walk the established(?) path to really get it, but if you somehow realize that you're going to get there anyway and by circumventing you can potentially be a better person - that would be pretty awesome.

Start humble and stay humble. When you have the opportunity to help someone - go for it. As time goes on, you should find yourself being able to help more often.

I agree with [Steve](https://sive.rs/4#comment-71723) - there IS a song here! Beautifully said, Derek.

I'm reminded of Across the Universe

Thank you for Sharing Derek. Wise words. I spent about 20years traveling around the world and it was the best education I have ever received.

Now my plan is to take my children to do the same things and see the world through their eyes.

Love to you and yours x

Pretty resonating stuff, Derek, I'd like to see you rewrite this when you are actually late in life.

Hello Derek; I remembered when I met you In Seattle years ago, and you had already had grand adventure. (Created cd baby) I believe it’s fascinating and inspirational for others to hear about your experiences. You’ve set goals and accomplished them. I say keep on, keeping on. By all means tell your story. Inspire; life really does seem to be short. We must stay active in our endeavors. I know of some who found success in the latter years who say the journey is the fun!

I suppose I should add you’re right. I’m 75 now still doing music, but my thoughts are of giving back. My wife and I have a new business which is helping the multitude in medicinal ways. It’s rewarding and makes you want to live longer, Even to see outcomes. You’re right we’ve seen a lot of others leave the earth, so we’re blessed. We need to share and thank God we still have good health. Don’t give up your dream!!!

I sure have some catching up to do. Thanks as always for your inspiration!

I enjoyed it.

Great piece...

Some people never cross the world once.

Some stay crossing the world in their 20s and never want to grow up.

Some skip the 20s and go straight to their 30s/50s.

I think the best people learn to have good questions and good ears at a young age (at least those are the people I enjoy being around the most.)

Thanks for sharing Derek.

It is tragic, especially how we treat folks on their 4th trip...

<3
all of this

Derek,

So very true...

It makes me think - of course, as all your insightful words do.

I wonder if the first cross is just becoming you - pre-teen and all you do and see to become who we are...

As of late - opening my mind to the other possibilities ~ that there is more to death then the end! Our minds, experiences, soul and conscious states go on in some other way. There's much info out there about all of it and it's an interesting proposition for sure...

Maybe in your circle - it just starts over again and there you go.

Loved it , thank you Dereck

And for many of us, there's not enough time....

Beautiful words dear Derek, as I’ve come to expect when I read / listen to your words .

Have a great day sir .

Joe.

Derek,

This is very powerful. Every time I read a good bit of writing it encourages me to keep following my own dreams. Thank you for sharing.

Cheers,

Ryan

Actually made me cry - thank you

This is lovely, Derek. I think the world would be a better place if more people traveled (or were able to). Thank you for sharing your work. BOB

Derek

I'm in the 4th Time crossing the world 60 plus. On each time of travelling the world I have experienced many of the moments you have mentioned. As I work as a musician I am regularly humbled by the joy music brings to children,to those who are getting ready to leave us and to myself.
Hopefully when I cross the world the last time a piece of me has stayed behind.

Thank you for thoughts.

Very interesting.

That was beautiful, Derek. Moved me too.

This is so true! I’ve done what you describe and I think your take is very accurate. Thank you for articulating it!

I hope I will accept and be at peace with the idea of stage 4 when the time comes.

Thank you for sharing this Derek. There is much to contemplate in your thinking.

Maybe the fifth time will be to reflect and to appreciate. All of the questions and all of the answers are (maybe?) right there in ourselves the whole time.

Sending you good vibes.

And in your 40s? I’ve ticked off the first 2, soon to embark on my 3rd world trip and not quite ready to unlearn just yet. I’m hoping the 40s revolution is about inspiring and connecting. Thanks for the inspiration!

This made me cry, D.

So very true!
But I hope I leave something behind that at least helps one young person.
The hope is though what I leave behind can help many for years to come.

I love this piece. It's beautiful. I also really appreciated how the description contained the transcript.

I'm excited for more content like this. Thanks, Derek.

I went around the world in my 20s looking for love. I'm now in my 30s preparing for my next trip. My first time I tried documenting the whole thing on video. That turned out rough but I did finish the project. Traveling with less than $9.00 a day is really hard and stressful. It was very exciting though.

Really liked what you explained, no matter what if we see a situation different time we make different opinions one different from earlier or more clarity in the context. We will always learn a new one in old things.

This shook me. Ive done the first tour and sort of wrapped it up last year (late twenties). I feel like i should share and teach in the next decade so ... so far we are aligned.
What was interesting for me was the last bit. Ive spent a bit of time learning about death and i think ive made my peace with it. But this last tour you suggested doesnt feel right for me. It made me ask myself why, because i thought id be less uncomfortable with the idea of dying. But its not the dying part that scares me this much. Its the goodbye. The goodbye with the knowledge that it really is (probably) forever. Goodbyes are hoeeible in general, why did we ever invent them? Either way, something for me to think about me. Thanks for the podcast. Id love to hear more of your thoughts in this area, but of course only if you are interested in sharing (be it podcast, email or otherwise).

Don't dream your Life! Live your Dreams

Sapere Aude - Dare to Live

I got chills, Derek. Thank you so much for writing this.

So much wisdom in less than two minutes...

Beautiful text with this poetic style!

So impressive! the impermanence of the universe gives us the possibility to re-invent ourselves and achieve a higher vibration in this movement of comings and goings.

Don't we all go to the same phases all over again in different scenarios?

A good read while I selfisolate and distance in northern Yukon , 4feet of snow and around and a good coffee in hand . 70 years old waiting for Spring . Thanks Derek .