Any Thunderbolt 3 docking stations that are actually good? (MBA M1 2020)

So I finally ordered a new Macbook Air M1 to upgrade from my trusty but laggy Macbook Pro early 2011. On a side note, I just checked and have been a forum member for 11 years with a colossal post count of 28.

Anyway: in terms of peripherals, I will need to connect the following (in addition to the power cable):

• One 4k monitor (side-question: should I use DP or HDMI?)
• One USB external hard drive (for Time Machine)
• One ethernet cable

It also needs to have a cable of at least 3 feet because the docking station will be hidden under the table.

My research started on Amazon where all the docking stations that show when you search for "docking station" are Chinese brands with concerning reviews such as "my house caught fire" (I joke, but you get the gist).

I then googled docking station reviews and understand that there are a few major and trusted models including the CalDigit TS3 Plus, the OWC Thunderbolt 3 Dock, and the Anker PowerExpand Elite 13-in-1.

BUT:

It looks like all of these have some kind of problem that appears to make them annoying to use in one way or another. From high-pitched noises to extreme video lag/choppiness to crazy heat to issues with sleep mode, you name it.

Has anyone here had a 100% positive experience with a docking station that just works as advertised? I will only be connecting one single 4k monitor if that helps.

Thanks in advance and merry Xmas!