One of the things I like most about this vibrator—besides the fact that it’s super cute—is just how wide the range of vibration intensity is. It goes from a soft little whisper of a buzz to an absolute hurricane of vibrations. That makes it a great toy for a variety of body parts, partners, and uses. It's a jack-of-all-trades for spicy bedroom time. 

Lelo's Sona 2 Cruise is a suction toy, meaning it uses a little mouth to produce the suction and tapping sensation provided during oral sex. It's a very different kind of sex toy than the traditional vibrator. It's small, discreet, can be as gentle or as intense as you like, and provides a kind of stimulation that's still pretty new to a lot of people. That makes it a great gift for anyone in your life, but especially a friend or lover who is curious about suction toys.

The cruise part of the name refers to Lelo's Cruise Control technology—which makes the toy ramp up intensity when you press it hard against your body.

Another favorite from Maude is the Burn No. 1 candle. Like any candle, it’s atmospheric and romantic on its own. But this little guy has a secret: It melts into massage oil. Just light it and pour the melted oil into your hands or directly on your partner’s back (from a safe height). It’s a fun little bit of holiday spice, and it’s discreet enough to sit out in the open.

Glass sex toys are nothing new but they can be intimidating if you're new to them. After all, glass is usually fragile. This glass isn't. It's tempered, superhard, but body-safe and nonporous as well. That makes them really easy to clean (just hand or dish soap will do the trick). Glass toys like these feel like an elegant way to spend some time with yourself, and since it's just a glass shaft there are no batteries you need to worry about. Paired with any lube on this list they make for a truly wonderful time in the bedroom. It is, however, not flared, so it's not safe for anal use.

The other nice thing about glass toys like the Violet Duchess is that they look as great on a shelf as they do on your nightstand.

I will never be able to sing enough praise for Dame’s Pom vibrator (8/10, WIRED Recommends). This little handheld vibe isn’t just powerful, it’s gorgeous and intuitively designed. It has the power you’d expect from a bullet vibe, but the added silicone body diffuses the vibrations through a broad area for a really unique experience. Not only is it easy to hold and operate one-handed, it fits neatly in the palm of most hands. All the buttons are right where your fingers land naturally. 

Tenga’s Crysta Leaf is a strong counterargument to the idea that sex toys for phallus-owners need to be crass and uncreative. It's not a “fleshlight.” In fact, it's hard to even tell it’s a sex toy when it’s sitting on your nightstand. It’s a clear, squishy, silicone-gel sleeve with a textured interior. When coupled with water-based lube, it’s an amazing experience—one that’s very easy (and rewarding) to share with a partner or enjoy by yourself. It’s the gift that keeps on giving!

Obsidian might seem like a weird choice of material for a sex toy, but it's just naturally occurring tempered glass. It's as durable, body safe, and nonporous as a traditional glass toy. This one in particular feels extra sturdy; it's pretty heavy. That heft is part of its charm though. Paired with any good lube, the Brancusi gets super slippery and it's very fun to play with. Additionally, its heft and craftsmanship make it a good gift for anyone interested in sensual artwork—or just a good glass dildo.

Since it's shaped like a phallus, it has a flared base that makes it safe for anal use. But I'd still advise caution because glass can get extremely slick with silicone or water-based lubes. Being nonporous, cleaning and disinfecting is super easy. It's just a matter of thoroughly washing with hand or dish soap.

This one’s a bit spendier than the other items on this list, but it’s worth it. MysteryVibe’s Crescendo is a flexible, bendable vibrator with six separate motors, all of which can be customized and controlled from its included app. Setting it up, getting the app paired, and experimenting with vibration patterns can be a fun exercise for couples.

The additional motors add a new level of stimulation to the standard vibration patterns. Instead of just one motor buzzing away somewhere inside a silicone body, the Crescendo’s motors switch on and off seamlessly, moving a vibration pattern up and down the body of the toy.

What's sexier than being comfy? Jambys’ pajama shorts are super soft, stretchy, and great for all genders. They provide a flattering and adorable fit, no matter your body shape or type. Unlike just wearing a pair of boxer shorts, Jambys are designed to be a bit thicker, a bit more durable, and a hell of a lot more comfortable. They're made from ultra-soft modal cotton, and they even have nice deep pockets. Jambys also makes sweatpants and T-shirts that are every bit as comfy and cozy.

As a person with a vulva, wearing a harness is tons of fun. But sometimes it’d be nice to have a little stimulation too. That’s where the Bumpher comes in. It’s a vibrating cushion that attaches to the end of most dildos, so it’s compatible with just about every harness and strap. It’s designed to provide vibration for the penetrative party in couple play, and it does that job very well.

No matter your genitalia, sometimes it’s fun for you or a partner to use a harness. Traditional straps can be intimidating and uncomfortable—all buckles and belts and metal. But Lovehoney’s Unisex Harness looks and wears just like a pair of briefs. Just slide the dildo into the solid O-ring in the front-facing pocket. It’s discreet, comfy to wear, and fits a wide variety of bodies—and it works great with the Bumpher (see above), for extra stimulation.

Nothing will change your intimate time quite like a high-quality personal lube. Yes, even when you’re by yourself. It’s not a failing to “need” lube for sex, and a good water-based lube will work great with all toys too. It can be used for all kinds of internal and external play and can be used with any of the items on this list. Maude’s Shine lube is my favorite overall. It comes in a cute, modern bottle, with a pump on top for easy access, and it lasts longer than you’d think.